Felted vessels to hold our tears, grief or memories

Unmoored by the losses from the pandemic, I found that making art and finding spiritual resources steadied me. I was inspired by a line from Psalms-- “God, put my tears in Your bottle.” With so much grief for all of us over the past two years, I loved the sense that our tears were worth saving.

But a glass container seemed the wrong material, too hard, like our culture’s hardheartedness toward grief. Why not, instead, a container to meet and hold our tears and grief with soft acceptance? And so I made felted woolen vessels, including the largest one shown above. Each is an artistic prayer, an invitation to hold grief with softness instead of hard-heartedness.

 

At the gallery installation, this large vessel summoned visitors to write their griefs on slips of parchment and place them inside. By the show’s end, the vessel was full. To signal the transformation of grief acknowledge and shared, I am incorporating the parchments into a new artwork.


I also made smaller vessels for individual grief and memories